"So when are YOU GUYS going to have kids?"

(From Danny...) The comments on today's post have been really wonderful.   Mara and I are delighted to hear the lessons many of you have learned as you've dealt with infertility either now or in the past.   There is a lot of wisdom in what you've all said, so thank you very much.   I suppose some of what I will say only echoes many of your words.I write primarily in response to Molly, who asked..